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You are unsettled in your identity.\\
Boy $\rightarrow$ enby $\rightarrow$ girl $\rightarrow$ trans woman.\footnote{Page \pageref{gender:gender}}\\
Biochemist $\rightarrow$ musician\footnote{Page \pageref{writing:music}} $\rightarrow$ programmer\footnote{Page \pageref{writing:software}} $\rightarrow$ writer.\footnote{Page \pageref{writing:writing}}\\
Gay $\rightarrow$ bi $\rightarrow$ pan $\rightarrow$ ace.\footnote{Page \pageref{sex:sex}}\\
Mono $\rightarrow$ poly.\footnote{Page \pageref{poly}}
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People change.

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Healthy $\rightarrow$ sick $\rightarrow$ broken $\rightarrow$ sick $\rightarrow$ improving.
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Like I said, people change.

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You change like it's your job.
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Is that not a good thing?

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Will you ever stop coming out?
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I don't know. Must I?

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No.
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Should I?

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Should you?
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