* Surgery * Decisions * Deciding on surgery * Deciding on a surgeon * First round prep * Getting letters (part 1) * Getting the consult * The consult * The problem of hair * Laser * Electrolysis * Leading up to surgery * Getting letters (part 2) * The pre-op appointments * Mom visit * Bowel prep * Driving and the night before * Surgery * The morning of * Waking up and the first night * The hospital stay * The bed * Bed rest * Bowel movements * Breathing and fever * The dressing * The first sight * Nerves mapping * Anxiety and pain * Medications * timing * Oxy/tylenol * The heat * The packing * The drains * The catheter * The packing itself * Peeing and showering * The post-op stay * The drive to the Airbnb * Getting partner * Drainage * Showering and company * Bacitracin * Getting off oxy * Getting comfortable * Walking with cane * Post-op visit * Leaving Airbnb * Powell's * Getting there early * Kat Campos and getting dilators * Home * The drive home * Seeing dogs * Dilating * Shopping * Healing * Dilating and increasing size * PT * Lifting * Walking * Breathing * Tensing/muscle control/kegels * Healing well